5 Common Mistakes Women Make
Believe it or not, women make mistakes in dating too. Contrary to popular belief, not all guys are willing to look over a woman’s mistake just because of her extravagant beauty. Girls, if you want to grab a real winner then try to avoid these 5 common mistakes.
1. Clingy Behavior
Clingy behavior is a turn off with most men but this doesn't mean you can never appear weak or vulnerable. What turns men off is this: A woman acts strong and independent during the initial stages of dating. She appears to be understanding those first few dates until she starts feeling comfortable. Then she begins to rely on him for emotional support too quickly. Instead of allowing the relationship to progress at a slow and natural pace, she falls into the trap that her man actually wants to meet her needs, even those she is quite capable of meeting herself. When a woma does this, she's treating her romantic partner more like a father than a boyfriend and the relationship usually ends with her asking, "How Do I Get Him Back?."
2. Over-Submission
Every guy likes the idea of a friendly and supporting woman. However, not as many guys are into the “harem” lifestyle as you might think. In other words, don’t be overly submissive by saying yes to everything he suggests. When you say yes to something that you feel is wrong, rude or very uncomfortable you're training him that you will tolerate such behavior. It may allow you to avoid a conflict in the short term but he'll soon seen you as convenient (or cheap). You want him to view you as expensive and worth doing whatever it takes to capture you.
3. Sleeping With Him Too Soon
Just because men want sex on the first date shouldn’t mean you give it to them! Some men tend to lose interest in a new prospect after things get intimate too soon. Remember, men don't bond with you emotionally when they have sex. Men bond when they commit to something or someone, women bond with their bodies and they assume men do as well. The moment you sleep with him you're at a disadvantage. It feels great and you're emotions will take over your decision making because you're bonding with him.....whether you think you are or not.
4. Betting On His Potential Rather Than Him
Many women prefer to blind themselves to a lover’s flaws, assuming that he has so much potential, that he will probably work out in the long run. This is a costly mistake! Never bet on a man’s potential. It’s not fair to you or him. Some people are capable of change and others are not. However, few if any can ever successfully change a partner. You could very well be miserable in a few years, finally realizing that your partner’s potential will be forever unrealized!
5. Sharing Too Much Information
Men don't share information with each other like women do. They value loyalty more than they do emotional sharing of information. If you end up sharing too much personal information it will usually work against you rather than for you. Try to maintain a calm and steady composure. Talk normally and listen to what your date says. When you share intimate information about yourself too early in a relationship, you're man doesn't know you well enough to put that information into it's proper context.
Imagine you tell him about a time when you said did something embarassing to a dear friend of yours. Since he does't know you as well as your girlfriend he may interpret your story as a sign that you're rude or insensitive. It doesn't matter if you explain to him what the point of the story is because how he chooses to interpret your story is his choice, regardless of how much you explain it. It's better to share less about yourself initially and let him get to know you first before you open up to him completely.
Avoiding these five mistakes will keep men from making the wrong assumption about you.
