Emotionally Unavailable

Why do guys seem to be into you one moment and then suddenly for no reason, they seem to pull away? What's even more frustrating is that this happens to every kind of woman. Whether you're old or young - Single or Married, it's impossible as a woman not to have experienced having a man you care about seem to be emotionally distant.

Why Guys Do This

For most men experiencing emotions is often uncomfortable. Oh, they like to have the "fun" feelings that they get going to a sports event, their favorite concert and having a great date with you. The problem is that men can only experience those feelings for short periods o f time. You'll notice that after all of these events I've just mentioned, there is normally a "crash" afterwards. They need to regroup emotionally.

How This Applies to Relationships

Most women don't realize that men don't want to be vulnerable to a woman, because it makes them feel out of control. So to protect themselves, they become emotionally unavailable or some would say guarded. Even though most men do this, some do it more than others.

What's A Girl To Do?

Since you now know this about men forget trying to get him to open up and tell you about his feelings. He's a guy, not a girl. Instead, there are 2 things that you can do which will make a man open up to you. Learn how to demonstrate value and show your emotions when he does something you like. You can learn how to demonstrate value here. Showing your emotions means, when he does something you like, speak in terms of how you feel such as, "That makes me feel special when you listen to me talk about my day."

When you combine both of these elements, you'll find he'll not only start to open up, he'll want to commit to you as well.