He Doesn't Know What He Wants

If your boyfriend or husband has told you he doesn’t know what he wants, then that can be very confusing for you. After all, you thought you were having a great time together and were equally committed to each other. And then, out of the blue, he says he doesn’t know what he wants. Who does that?

You may be wondering what he’s thinking right now. The problem is, he may not know himself. But there’s one thing for certain: what he wants often changes depending on his mood. Of course there are instances when he knows exactly what he wants and during those times there's no stopping him. Yet, those instances are much more rare than most women realize.

Demonstrate Value

The trick is how can a woman help nuture romantic feelings in a man towards her? The short answer is this: you must demonstrate value. Women who consistantly demonstrate value stand out from the crowd. Guys want to date them, knowing they’re a cut above ordinary women.

For a much more complete and detailed explanation of this magical quality go here. For now, here are 4 quick and easy points to consider.

1. Is his behaviour something you can live with? I mean, if he doesn't change are you o.k. with that? If not then it's time to reconsider your relationship.

2. Go out there and have some fun. If you haven’t seen your girlfriends for a while, then spend some time with them. Start a new hobby, or take up an old one that you previously enjoyed. Rediscover the person you were before you met your partner.

3. Take pride in your appearance. If you look good, you’ll feel good, even if your boyfriend doesn’t know what he wants! And once you start feeling good about yourself, you’ll be able to handle what’s going on in your life in a more positive way.

4. Don’t expect less than you deserve. You deserve the best! So if your boyfriend’s making you tear your hair out because he’s not sure whether he wants to be with you, or is in a pattern of getting together with you and then becoming distant, don’t put up with it anymore. Is this really how you want to be treated?

Remember that how you feel about yourself affects how a man sees you. However, it’s up to you whether you still want to be with him after the way he’s treated you. Now it’s up to you to decide what you want.